There’s something that often happens as January draws to a close.

The urgency to hustle change softens into something more self-reflective.
The pressure eases.
And without really noticing it, a different kind of question begins to rise quietly beneath the surface.

Instead of asking “What should I be doing now?” many women start to feel a more honest question emerge beneath the noise:

“What am I ready to let go of?”

January tends to arrive full of noise — intentions, promises, resolutions, plans. It asks us to set, decide, and commit. It often puts pressure on us to change for the sake of changing. We feel the pull of something more, something better, yet those intentions can easily become mired by the influence of others and the reality of overloaded lives.

February carries a different energy altogether.

It doesn’t demand action in the same way. By now, January resolutions may already have fallen by the wayside — especially if they were shaped by expectation rather than by what would genuinely create a better life for you. February offers a quieter opportunity to reflect more honestly, to revisit what truly matters, and to reconnect with goals that are personal rather than imposed.

And that honesty matters more than we often realise.

Because before the body, the mind, or life itself can move forward in a sustainable way, something has to be released.

A Different Way of Understanding This Moment

In Chinese tradition, the year we are currently moving through is the Year of the Snake, and more specifically, the Wood Snake.

This isn’t about prediction or personality traits. It’s about energy and timing.

In Chinese tradition and elemental philosophy, the Snake represents shedding, renewal, and transformation — not through force, but because growth has made the old skin too small. The snake doesn’t shed because something has gone wrong. It sheds because it has outgrown its previous form.

That distinction is important.

And when we bring in the Wood element, the message becomes even clearer.

Wood is associated with growth, expansion, direction, and vitality — think of the energy of a forest. In the body, it relates to the liver and gallbladder systems: the organs responsible for flow, detoxification, decision-making, and the smooth movement of energy.

When Wood energy is healthy, there is flexibility, vision, and a natural sense of forward movement.
When it becomes constrained or overloaded, we often experience frustration, tension, fatigue, indecision, and a feeling of being stuck.

Through my own health journey, I’ve come to understand change not just as something we decide with our minds, but as something that must be supported by the body and nervous system as well. When energy has been constrained for too long — by stress, pressure, or the weight of old expectations — growth doesn’t respond to force. It responds to space, flow, and the removal of what is no longer needed.

That understanding has shaped how I now see this season: not as a time to push forward, but as a moment to clear what blocks the natural movement toward what comes next. And as women, when we enter the physical and emotional changes of perimenopause and menopause, this relationship between energy, body, and emotion often becomes even more pronounced.

So from a health-led perspective, this season isn’t asking you to push harder.

It’s asking you to remove what is blocking growth.

Why Forcing Change Rarely Works

This is where so many New Year’s resolutions fall apart.

We try to grow without clearing.
We try to expand while still holding old patterns, roles, and expectations.
We try to move forward while the body and nervous system are already overloaded.

From a therapeutic perspective, this isn’t a failure of willpower — it’s a mismatch between capacity and demand.

In Chinese medicine, Wood does not thrive under pressure. It thrives when there is space, nourishment, and clear direction.

And that mirrors what so many women experience at this time of year — and at this stage of life.

You don’t lack discipline.
You aren’t lazy.
Your body and mind are simply asking for a different approach.

One that begins with release, not effort.

Shedding Is a Healthy Practice, Not a Weakness

Letting go is often misunderstood.

It’s framed as giving up, lowering standards, or losing parts of ourselves. But in both nature and medicine, shedding is a sign of health and adaptation — not failure.

It might look like:

• releasing roles that no longer fit;

• removing expectations carried out of obligation;

• relieving the internal pressure to keep pushing through exhaustion;

• creating new ways of speaking to yourself that create clarity rather than tension.

When Wood energy is supported, boundaries become clearer, anger softens into discernment, and direction replaces frustration.

This isn’t about becoming passive.
It’s about becoming aligned.

And for many women in their 50s, this can be one of the most meaningful moments to reflect honestly on how life is currently being lived — and how well it truly serves them.

When we work with the body rather than against it, letting go stops feeling like failure and starts to feel like relief.

Why February Is a Powerful Turning Point

Although we often think of the year as beginning in January, many traditional systems — including Chinese astrology — recognise that momentum builds more gradually.

February is still a transitional space. A bridge between intention and action. Energetically, it carries us slowly toward spring, while January still holds the deep, inward quality of winter in the Northern Hemisphere.

The Wood Snake energy of 2025 supports this phase of internal reorganisation, before outward movement. It encourages you to notice what no longer serves your health, energy, or sense of self — and to consciously release it.

This is not the season for forcing outcomes.

It is the season for clearing the pathways ready for the journey forward.

Making Space for What Wants to Grow

One of the first things I work with inside the True Woman Rising Pathway is this idea of clearing before creating. Not as a mindset exercise, but as a grounded, embodied process.

When you understand what drains you, constrains you, or keeps your energy knotted, it becomes much easier to move forward with clarity and confidence. Growth stops feeling like self-betrayal and begins to feel like self-respect when old patterns are released.

This approach isn’t about fixing yourself.

It’s about working with your system — physically, emotionally, and energetically — rather than constantly pushing against it.

A Different Question to Sit With

As this season unfolds, you might gently ask yourself:

“What am I ready to stop carrying now?”

Not what you should let go of.
But the burdens and strains your body, energy, and inner knowing have been signalling for some time.

Because forward movement doesn’t begin with force.

In both health and life, it begins with flow.

And sometimes, the most powerful step you can take is not doing more — but allowing yourself to shed what you have already outgrown, creating space for what is ready to emerge.

Marie 
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